What Does Motherhood Feel Like to You?
Motherhood is one of those things you can hear about, read about, and prepare for—but nothing truly prepares you for how it feels. It changes you in ways you never expected. Today, I’m sitting down with myself (because, why not?) to reflect on what this journey has meant to me.
Motherhood teaches you to take care of your inner child, too.
What has surprised you most about motherhood?
I honestly thought I’d still be me—just me, but holding a baby, then a toddler, then a child. I never imagined I would become an entirely new version of myself. People always say things like, “Oh, I have nieces, nephews, godchildren—I know what it’s like,” but you really don’t until you live it. There’s a shift, something deep inside you that changes forever, and no one can quite put it into words until you experience it yourself.
What is a small, everyday moment with your child that you treasure the most?
The little things—combing his hair, hearing him tell me about his day, giggling together over something completely silly. Those fleeting moments, the ones that seem so ordinary, are the ones I hold closest. Watching him turn into this amazing person fills me with awe.
How has motherhood changed the way you see yourself?
It took me a while to figure out this new version of me. I had to meet her first, understand her, accept her. But I think she’s a better version—a more compassionate, loving one. Motherhood teaches you to take care of your inner child, too. You become gentler with yourself because now you know what that kind of care truly looks like. And if you’re showing your child how to love themselves, shouldn’t you be doing the same?
Motherhood is messy, wonderful, exhausting, and beautiful all at once.
What do you wish more people understood about being a mum?
It’s not just about loving someone more than yourself—it’s also about loving yourself enough to teach them how to do the same. To be better for them. To leave good, kind-hearted people in this world long after you’re gone. Parenting isn’t just about shaping them—it’s about shaping yourself, too.
If you could freeze one moment in time with your child, what would it be and why?
The simple moments. Holding hands on the way to school, even though he’s 10 and I know he won’t want to for much longer. Talking about silly things. Knowing his fears. Seeing that he values the little things in life. That’s the real magic of it all—the quiet, in-between moments.
Motherhood is messy, wonderful, exhausting, and beautiful all at once. And while I may have become someone I never expected, I wouldn’t change it for the world.
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